Our lives will never be perfect. The only way we enjoy our imperfect lives is if we embrace those imperfections and make the most out of them. You'll never have everything but you can certainly make the best out of everything you already have. Always remember that it's not the things that you have that will make you happy. Happiness will always be choice no matter what happens. You feel it and you can choose to entertain it or just simply ignore it. You handle and control your life. It's up to you if you want to be influenced by the world around you or not. To follow the norms or simply stand out of the crowd. Life is a series of choices and every choice we make gives us a lesson. But beware it will still be a choice to learn from that lesson or simply ignore them. Every decision we make will create ripples and series of events. These series of events will then help in molding our very character and personality. Once this personality is developed, it will represent us in our society and we will surely get the attention of the people in a bad or a good way. Life is simple and easy to live. It is us who make it complicated and worse. Some people will have their own reason why they want their life complicated. But if you still see them happy given the situation, then you'll know that they've been learning their lesson from life. They have learn to accept the fact that they simply have to accept what is given to them and be happy and contented with it. Things always happen for a reason but nevertheless they will always give you a lesson in the end. May it be a positive or negative experience life will always be a fair teacher. Life may give you the tests firsts but the lesson after it will be worth it. Just like the famous story of "coffee" where the cup that holds the coffee is like out standing in life. Having a good paying job, your dream house your dream car and even your dream guy or girl. These things will never affect the quality of life we live. Same as how the cup that holds the coffee never spoils nor add quality to it. It is how you go through life and how you treat the people that comes and goes in it. You may have everything in the world and even share it with everyone else, but if you still act inappropriately towards other people it will still show how you haven't learned from life's lessons. Always remember that it's not only you living your life out there. Everyone is struggling, others are even fighting, trying to stay alive just to live out their lives. Because they know it will always be worth it in the end. No matter how good or miserable your life is right now. There will always be a spark of hope and the dawn of a new day. It is up to us to establish our belief that life will be better. It is up to us to grab that chance whenever it's there. To hold and protect that single candle that gives warmth and light to our darkest days. The candle that can only be found inside our ever growing hearts. It is a good sign that others are willing to share the light and warmth of the candles in their heart. It only shows that they know what you are going through and they want to help you out by lighting your own candle with theirs. Don't let pride get the best of you. If you need help of other people then be willing to accept it. It may show your weakness but at the same time it will show your strength in overcoming your pride. It is never too late to learn the lessons of life. Life will never stop teaching you things you should know. Life will never loose its patience nor its composure when it is teaching you the best and worst possible lessons. So just open your mind and absorb what life has to offer. Once you have a solid grasp of life's hard but meaningful lessons. That will be the time that you cherish it as a part of your whole being, character and personality and you will come to accept the fact that Life is indeed PERFECT.
"The only time that our Lives can be perfect is if we stop resenting what life keeps giving."
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