CL Stories – Fragile and Frail [Chapter 42]

Human emotions are as fragile and frail as a piece of glass. You don't really need to drop it to break it. Just a sufficient blow will make it crack. When a glass is exposed to a constant change of temperature from hot to cold and vice versa, as time goes by it will be in a state of futility and that makes it unreliable, same goes for human emotions. Emotions become unreliable and unstable when one is constantly exposed to different feelings. The person becomes torn between the mixed emotions and starts to lose sight of how he or she really feels. Once that happens the person is now prone to make mistakes, jump to conclusions, and acquire fears that he or she may not have encountered before. Let us not forget that the brain tells how and what we should feel. So it should be us in control of our emotions and not the other way around. You become one of the worst people in the world if you act solely on your emotions. We have to be objective and skeptical when we deal with our emotions since they can really be unreliable. All people have different ways of coping up with emotional stress. Some go out more, spend time with people and party out with friends to get distracted from it so that they can get their minds clear and ready to think of ways to deal with the emotional stress they are experiencing. While others spend time alone without getting in contact with anyone so that they can achieve inner peace and start to sort things out as well as deal with their feelings. I personally prefer being alone if I’m in this kind of turmoil. It helps me think whether the things I have done are right or wrong. It also assists me in deciphering my true feelings and helps me concentrate on what I should do next. Blogging is also one way of expressing how I really feel since I seldom speak to someone about these things. When a person makes a mistake due to the unreliability of emotions he/she enters a doubtful trance. Instantaneously that person becomes untrusting to everyone including him/herself. Words of advice though, lose your faith and trust in everyone else except yourself. The moment you lose confidence and trust in yourself could mean your lack of understanding your own personality. Once self doubt kicks in, jump hastily in to that self defensive and reconstructive pattern to prevent loss of self esteem and to keep a little bit of your pride. Keep in mind that lingering in the threshold of negative emotions will do you no good 

"Heart is the very core and essence of human feelings and emotions just as the brain is the core and essence of the human body and intelligence."